Hello from someone who does understand your role even though I’m female. I’ve worked with several men in your position and realize your disbelief, shock and anger that take over. There are no simple explanations for what’s happened to you but at some point in your marriage your wife decided to act on her desire and have an affair.
Most men in your position are clueless during the time the affair is happening and are certainly not prepared to face or deal with the situation and its impact when the affair is no longer a secret. How you found out is not the issue but how you handle information is critical and often affects your life and that of your family for years to come.
Get your life back on track during this emotionally draining and financially painful time. No need to stay blindsided by hurt and anger. These emotions conflict with positive interventions to protect you. I’m here to help…
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